I've often said, the major reason for setting
a goal is for what it makes of you to accomplish it. What it makes
of you will always be the far greater value than what you get.
That is why goals are so powerful. They are part of the fabric
that make up our lives. And goal-setting is where we create our
goals.
Goal-setting can be so powerful. It provides
focus. It shapes our dreams. It gives us the ability to hone in
on the exact actions we need to take in order to get everything
in life that we desire.
Goals are exciting because they provide focus
and aim for our lives. Goals are great because they cause us to
stretch and grow in ways that we never have before. In order to
reach our goals we must become better. We must change and grow.
There are three components to a powerful goal:
It must be inspiring. It must be believable. It must be one that
you can act on. When your goals inspire you, when you believe
them, and when you act on them is when you will get them!
Goals also provide long-term vision in our lives.
We all need lots of powerful, long-range goals to help us get
past short-term obstacles. Life is designed in such a way that
we look long-term and live short-term. We dream for the future
and live in the present. Unfortunately, the present can produce
many hard obstacles. Fortunately, the more powerful our goals
(because they are inspiring and believable) the more we will be
able to act on them in the short-term and guarantee that they
will actually come to pass!
So, let's take a closer look at the topic of
Goal-Setting and see how we can make it forceful as well as practical.
What are the key aspects to learn and remember when studying and
writing our goals?
I believe there are four main areas of emphasis:
1. Evaluation and Reflection. The only way we
can reasonably decide what we want in the future and how we will
get there, is to first know where we are right now and secondly,
what our level of satisfaction is for where we are in life. As
we focus this month on goal-setting, the first order of business
and our topic this week is for each of us to be serious about
taking some time for evaluation and reflection.
2. Dreams and Goals. What are your dreams and
goals? Not related to the past or what you think you can get,
but what you want. Have you ever really sat down and thought through
your life values and decided what you really want? This isn't
something that someone else says you should have or what culture
tells us successful people do or have. These are the dreams and
goals that are born out of your own heart and mind. These are
the goals that are unique to you and come from who you were created
to be and gifted to become. Next week we will show you exactly
how to find out what you want from life.
3. S.M.A.R.T. Goals. S.M.A.R.T. means Specific,
Measurable, Attainable, Realistic, and Time-sensitive.
Specific: Don't be vague. Exactly what do you
want?
Measurable: Quantify your goal. How will you
know if you've achieved it or not?
Attainable: Be honest with yourself about what
you can reasonably accomplish at this point in your life - along
with taking into consideration your current responsibilities.
Realistic: It's got to be do-able, real and practical.
Time: Associate a timeframe with each goal. When
should you complete the goal?
We will spend some time in two weeks looking
at how to apply the S.M.A.R.T. test to your goals to make sure
they are as powerful as they can be!
4. Accountability. Think of the word "accountable."
It means to "give an account." When someone knows what
your goals are, they help hold you accountable. Whether it is
someone else going through this program with you (have you thought
about inviting a friend to join you on this one-year journey?)
or just someone you can give the basic idea to; having a person
who can hold you accountable will give you another added boost
to getting your goals! On Week Eight we will show you how to set
up an accountability partner.