Here's
a little test. Don't worry I promise it won't be that hard. Make a list
of 10 people that you know (make sure that at least one or two of them
you view to be a success in their area of life). Ask these folks what their
definite purpose in life is. More commonly stated as what goals they want
to achieve. Chances are not many of them are going to be able to answer
this question. And of those that do, when pressed for details, the list
will even get shorter!
What
you will notice is that the ones that give the more concise answers will
tend to be the one's that you viewed to be successful in the first place.
Why is this you ask? The best I can say is that (for the majority of the
time) the people that achieve great things in their lives have plans set
forth. They don't leave their achievements to chance!
Here's
a personal example of where I witnessed the power of not leaving things
to chance. It's an example that hits really close to home! You see, my
sister Mary Kate had just graduated from the University of Alabama with
a degree in Public Relations. I am sure you PR majors can attest to the
fact that landing a job in this field can be a test at times. Much less
ones choice position. So imagine my surprise when my sister went on to
say that not only did she want a job in her field, but that she wanted
to live in Nashville, TN and work in the entertainment sector of PR.
Admittedly
even as positive as I generally am I was worried that this goal of hers
wasn't quite realistic. What I hadn't counted on though was that my little
sister's persistence and definite purpose far outweighed any doubt that
I might have had for her lofty goal! The months went on and she applied
and applied to jobs in the area she wished to move to.
Sure
she heard her share of no's along the way, but she just kept pushing onward.
Then it happened! She was asked to interview with a public relations firm
that specialized in country music entertainers. To some it might be easy
to say "well she was just lucky". My friend, as someone that was there
first hand I assure you luck had very little to do with it (while persistence
certainly did).
Let's
review what came into play in the previous example. My sister had a goal.
More than just a goal she had a definite plan that she knew she needed
to diligently put into place so that her desire would be achieved.
She worked the plan no matter what short term failures came her way in
the form of no's.
Simply
put, her plan met with rugged persistence and I am happy to say that while
I lost my little sister to a new town she is in fact living the life she
planned for herself. I hope you're in the process of putting together a
personal plan to help you achieve that which you want to see in your life.
It takes work, but the benefits are wonderful...
Your
friend in cyberspace, Josh Hinds
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